I’ve heard that the best questions to ask a girl on a first date are questions that keep the conversation all about her, so what are some good questions to ask?
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ask about what kind of music shes into,what kind of movies,what kind of books, ect. and dont just ask about her wen u ask her a question wait til she answers then say cool mine is….. good luck have fun
Well I’m sure we girls don’t want to just talk ALL about ourselves, but it is good advice because we do like talking about ourselves- but bear in mind we’d still like to get to know you guys as well
well, some questions include:
tell her she’s beautiful instead of hot
- what are your hobbies? (or something along those lines- like, ease into that subject, don’t just ask it straight on coz itd be weird on a date)
- ask about her travels/life so far (don’t talk about exes or relationships though)
- ask her what her fave season is, and the one place she’d like to go to
- compliment her
it doesn’t have to be all about the talking though- flirt with her and just be natural; joke a little but flirt
the best of luck!
Normal “getting to know you” questions- What’s your favorite movie, book, food, hobby, etc?
What do you like in a guy?- type questions are fair game as well.
Hypothetical questions are good conversation starters (and other ways that you get to know your date better)- a la “If you could travel back in time, where would you go” (that’s a lame example, but you get the idea).
Also, just have funny stories & anecdotes to tell her about yourself. Hopefully she’ll find them amusing at least, and at most she’ll open up to you with stories of her own!
You can ask just about anything, as long as it isn’t offensive or too personal. For example, don’t ask about her weight or lady cycle. Girls obviously like to talk about themselves so ask about things like where she’s from, where she grew up, where she went to school, what her favorite subject or sport was, ask about her family, if she has pets ask about that, ask what her hobbies are, what kind of movies she likes, favorite foods, and anything else you’d like to know about her. If you find that you two have a lot in common you can move on to bigger questions. Ask about what her aspirations are, her dream career, where she sees herself in five years, her political and/or religious views, etc. Just try to keep it fun and don’t be too serious.
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don’t sit across the table if you’re going to a restaurant thing. Sit on a 90 degree angle if you know what I mean. Like if it were a table with 4 chairs evenly placed around the table, positions 1, 2, 3 and 4, instead of sitting in positions 1 and 3, sit in 1 and 2. This instantly creates a more social aura, as the table in between you on a date creates an instant ’shield,’ or barrier, making the aura less receptive and emotional, and more like an interview.
Then again I wouldn’t recommend going to a cafe or anything on a first date anyway. Do something fun around town or walk around, find an activity. This helps so that if you lose the conversation you can pretend to be distracted by something else, it also provides something to discuss, and makes the mood a lot lighter and friendly. You shouldn’t be anxious about what to ask. Going in anxious will make it awkward, I’ve found that talking to people without a huge game plan is the best idea, although some routines are good too. Ask about pets. Girls wuuuuuuv pets! Ask her what super powers her pet has. Then say your pet’s super powers are cooler, but that her’s could be your pet’s sidekick. Try to talk to her like you would a guy-friend. I know it’s a difficult concept, but often the best topics are the ones that you would never think of talking about, to keep it all less formal, chattier and random. drivers license, parents, siblings, friends, fun events like parties and good times. Anything that conjures good feeling inside her, she will associate with you.
-AcharyA.
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